My second post ended with, “Once upon a time, a visitor stepped waaaaay out of their comfort zone to visit a new place called the UU Church of Nashua, and they found smiling faces and a comfy seat to sit in while they participated in the worship service. Their children found brightly colored classrooms that encouraged character development and making friends.”

Continue that story by thinking about what hospitality you might offer guests at your home. A smile, a “Hello, I’m glad you’re here,” or “May I take your coat?” or “Would you like something to drink?” And, oh yes, the proverbial, “The bathroom is down the hall to your left.” “Let me show your child to where our children are.”

Now consider how our church, what we call our spiritual home, offers similar hospitality to its visitors, newcomers, children or regulars.  Extend yourself to visitors to help them feel comfortable by trying a few of the suggestions below:

• Say “Hi!” or “Good Morning!”
• Wear your nametag and introduce yourself first
• If you don’t recognize someone, say something like, “Hi, I don’t think we’ve met. My name is ______.”
• Express your gratitude to the person for coming – “We are glad you are here with us.”
• Ask “What brought you here today?” or “Tell me about yourself.”
• Offer directions to the nearest restroom or coat closet.
• As the service ends, invite them to the Fellowship Hour after the service.
• Invite the newcomer to try our worship service three times before deciding if we are a good fit. Our services can vary greatly from week to week.

As a newcomer’s story unfolds, come and be a part of their story. Seek out newcomers in fellowship/coffee hour and be curious about their story. Listen to what newcomers have to say about our congregation; listen to understand what their expectations are. How surprised would you be to hear something like THIS?  Stories have power, if we dare to be patient, if we dare to be curious, if we dare to listen deeply.

I invite you to step out of your comfort zone, much like visitors step out of their comfort zone, and perhaps find the joy and rewards of being curious.

With gratitude,

Lori Lerude

Membership Coordinator